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Lubby Dives Into Reddit, Again | LNL132

admin Saturday August 27, 2022

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RELATIONSHIPS


I (24f) got home around 4 and started making dinner at 5. My boyfriend typically gets off work around 5:30 but didn’t get home until 6, until I was already making dinner. He got home, gave me a hug and some kisses, and immediately wanted to get on his PC because his friends were on. I spent the entire time after I got home from work cooking dinner and when it was ready, he was mid game but was aware dinner was ready. I don’t like telling him what to do and don’t want to seem controlling, so I just softly say “it’s okay” when he asks to game to push past my feelings. We just have a conversation last week about how I was feeling neglected when he games every night. How do I get him to eat dinner with me?

My girlfriend just broke up with me and I went to smoke and have drinks with some friends we still currently live together so when I got back she told me that I didn't care about or love her and I don't care about our relationship when she was the one to break up with me then she started to say that she was going to kill herself because don't nobody love or care about her but I do love and care about her this has happened multiple times where she'll break up with me then start to tell me I don't love or care about her and she is going to kill herself and I have gotten back with her each time she has done it. Somebody please help me.

So I'm a dude and he's also a dude and he's the best person I've ever met in life. I like to believe that God gifted me him. Because without him I probably wouldn't be alive. He helped sculpture my moral compass and taught me so many things, he's basically my older brother. I'd give my life for his with no hesitation and he would do the same. So anyway, our bond is unbreakable and he always has my back. In the last few years we started to become cuddly to some degree and I'm more than fine with that, he's one of the few people I can be myself with. Everytime we see each other we hug, and everytime one of us gets upset we would hug each other for comfort. So today me and my friends were hanging out and decided to sit on the sidewalk he leaned in and put his head on my shoulder and that's very normal we would do this all the time. But this time, out of nowhere, he lifted his head and kissed me on my left cheek and I was surprised but it was a pleasant surprise, tbh it made me feel warm and nice, but I didn't do anything so it won't get weird. I don't know how I feel about this, not that it bothered me but I didn't expect it. Should I expect more? Or should I do nothing about it?

I met someone on a dating site and we got along wonderfully. They are extremely sweet and funny. I made sure to be super transparent about myself and post pictures that reflect the actual me. We scheduled a date for tomorrow night which we both seemed excited for. My excitement was shot down when they began questioning why I dress the way I dress which is more on the alternative/rocker side. They said that they prefer someone who doesn’t dress like I do but doesn’t want me to change and still wants to go on the date because my personality is nice. I don’t know if I’m overthinking it but something about someone reacting negatively to my choice in clothing and telling me I’m not their preference makes me feel like going on the date just isn’t the right move but I don’t want to rush to judge someone either. Should I still go on the date?

We broke up about 2-3 months ago in June. We had been together for about 5 years. After like a month of our break up she started talking to guys and flirting, not in a serious way. But basically I know what she’s doing which is what I used to do when I was like 16 to 19, is just flirt a bunch because its fun, it gets your mind off of things and who knows what you can benefit from it. I understand. However, why is it that i cant bring this side of me out anymore? Why is it so easy for her to do this but hard for me?

My boyfriend knows I’m not happy and actually told me he can see in my eyes that I’ve given up. He started crying and said I’m not the same person he fell in love with, and he knows it’s because of his actions, and he feels selfish knowing that I’m unhappy and feels I’m still here because he’s going through a difficult time and he wants to stop giving me false hope that things will change. He pretty much told me that he knows I’ve been thinking of ending things, and would understand if I decide to leave. I never thought he would say something like that. And we live together so I’m not sure where to go from here. What do I do now?

PARENTING


My daughter is turning 17 in November and is a junior in high school. Her boyfriend will be 18 in January. He’s a senior. They’ve been dating for 7 months. We’ve been pretty lenient with her. She’s a good kid, has a job, gets straight As. Her boyfriend has been allowed to hang out in her room with the door closed. She’s on birth control. I believe they have started having sex in the past 2 months. I really don’t care to know for sure. They boy is a nice kid. We like him a lot. Here’s the thing - I don’t want them having sex in my house. Is that really strict? I don’t think so. There’s no way my parents would have even allowed me to be alone in my bedroom for hours with a boy. I don’t mind kissing, snuggling, etc. but is it too much to have a rule of no sleeping with your boyfriend in our house?

I need some help and support for my wife. I work 12-hour shifts at night and she’s having to do 20+ hours of childcare by herself, with no support. Despite all the people that said that they’d help and be there, their not around or anywhere to be seen or heard from. I’m gonna be looking for a new job but what can I do in the meantime? She has postpartum depression, and she’s losing her poor little mind because of our child. We suspect that our baby girl has baby-version of GERD, just like my wife had and still has to this day, so that means strictly breastfeeding but our baby will nurse for literal HOURS at a time and she’s still hungry… what can I do?

For how long should I wait until I let my kids meet my boyfriend? Me and their dad are no longer together and I've been dating this guy for a few weeks, but we've been friends since January. I trust him 100% and he has a daughter of his own and is really good with her. I feel like I should wait a bit longer but at the same time I'm so in love with this guy and I really do want him to meet my kids and vice versa. What do you guys think?

Help! I need some help with creative thinking here. Long story short my toddler got an egg from my friends chicken coop. She was helping carry the eggs back inside but thought it was so cute and did not want to let it go. I thought it was so cute too so I helped her make a nest to keep “Eggy” safe. She’s pretty smart and knows that eggs hatch baby chicks and has been telling her dad and I how she can’t wait for her to hatch and that she’s going to love her forever. Eggy sleeps in her nest by her bed and has been coming everywhere with us. We have been trying to come up with creative ways for Eggy to hatch or swap her out. Or just next steps in general. She’s been careful when taking Eggy out her next so we don’t think her dropping it is a possibility. We’re thinking of cleaning the egg out and trying to fill it with jelly beans. We definitely let this attachment to an egg spiral but it was too adorable. Any suggestions?

My 2 year old squeezes out all the shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, moisturising creme, hair gel and we're forever wasting so much money having to replace these items when he dumps them all out when they're full. I've tried putting them under the sink and he just opens it (broke the child lock). Plus I don't want to have to go out of my way to get what I need from the bathroom how can I just teach him to stop doing this?

My son, 7 and a half, lost a tooth yesterday. The Tooth fairy questions started with the last tooth ("is there really a tooth fairy? What does she do with the teeth?") And I kinda played it off. I didn't lie, but I was vague. This time, he straight up said he didn't think there was a tooth fairy, that he thought it was just me coming in after he was asleep. I asked if that's what he really thought (yes), if he was sure (yes), and then I confirmed that he was right. I told him that we pretend the tooth fairy is real because it's fun, and because losing teeth is a big deal since it means he's growing up. I also said that part of knowing the secret is keeping it so he doesn't spoil the fun for other kids. My mom thinks I shouldn't have told him the truth, that I should have kept the fairy myth alive for a little while longer. Is she right? Did I screw up?

FTM to a beautiful 12 week old baby girl who since the beginning of her days has sucked her fist, index finger or thumb. I have been taking it as a hunger cue which has been fine. The other night I caught her doing it in her sleep for the first time. MIL is adamant I give her a pacifier as they are easier to toss away, can't remove her hand. However I feel very strongly against them as neither my partner or I had one as children. Do they grow out of sucking hand?

SEX


How to get my wife to let me give her a facial? We got married 2 months ago and she’s never swallowed my cum, but this is a fetish I’ve always had. She’s let me cum on her ass and tits but I want to cover her face with my seed. Any ideas/tips?

My super hot soon to be fiancé is a stripper and bi. I know, what a lucky guy I am haha. We haven’t discussed bringing someone else into the bedroom until she sent me a snap from work with another girl saying they want a threesome. This is going to be my first one so I’m just looking for some tips to keep them both satisfied as well as having fun myself. Any suggestions?

My boyfriend stays hard when I jack him off with my hand but as soon as he is inside me for a few minutes he starts to lose his boner. He apologizes and is super upset and embarrassed about it..On the very rare occasion he stays hard the whole time when we are having sex. Any advice on what’s happening?

Hello I’m a (f20) I lost my virginity when I was 19 I’ve had sex plenty of times. I’ve had issues having an orgasm in the past. But since I got together with my boyfriend of three months I’ve never not had an orgasm. But I can’t ever orgasm when I play with myself. I have only tried two toys. Should i try more?

I am 31 year old virgin got hitched recently. Initial couple of weeks were great the sensation of touching 😘and licking alone was enough to make us both cum. Now we are preparing for full on intercourse. Please suggest dos and don'ts.

So me and my girl have sex often, but the way me or her initiates it is the same all the time. We first kiss each other, then I move down south, then we have sex after. Is there another way to start it? Like a more interesting way?

My wife had a baby almost 3 months ago and the sex has not been an option. I have tried multiple times and she gets very angry and annoyed. Even asked for a hand job to which she got angry. She is not breastfeeding but is pumping regularly. I’m going to be honest and can’t remember the last time we have been intimate since it’s been so long. I am so aggravated with her and have a short temper at any given time due to lack of sex. Any advice?

WORK


I work in a web development team. We create websites and build SEO but we're pretty small. There are only about 15 of us altogether. I was hired in 2020 as a copywriter but the marketing manager clearly wanted me to be more than that and has been pushing me towards greater things, which is nice and I've learned a lot. (side note, I have never met any of the team, we're all remote based). I took this job for 2 reasons, I wanted something less stressful than my previous job with a big firm and I wanted to work from home. Both wishes were granted. It's now been almost 18 months and my manager says they want me to go to Berlin with them for a conference, and then they want me to help table another conference in Malta. Can I say no to the trip?

I started a new job a month ago & I’m really enjoying it. It was a parallel move for me & I came to this company to get more opportunities. My manager Jane is moving to another position & I want her job. We have the same amount of experience, I have a slightly higher qualification but there are some products of the company that are new to me. I’m worried about ruining my reputation already if I put myself forward for this by appearing naive but I also don’t want to miss the opportunity. I know I’d be able to do the job well if I got a crash course in the products that are new to me. So my question is two-fold, can I ask for the promotion? If so, how do I even broach the topic?

probation period. the key to success at work is keeping my mouth shut. so i need tips: how do i stfu and let them enact a process with so many holes in it i can tell them exactly how long it will take to not work, what the error will be, and why they missed it. how do i remain silent and not say anything!???

Work in a small office. I’m f28 and my coworker is m26. I’ve been in many office settings multiple times but this is the first time I’ve been in a position where someone fist bumps me at least a minimum 5 times a day lmao. I don’t mind as much because it’s harmless (so i think) but he does it in very weird instances like when I’m eating or when he has to pass me multiple times (in rapid succession) but I’m big on hygiene and ik Monkey Pox ain’t no fun so i immediately wash my hands or sanitize. I also notice he doesn’t do it to everyone so it’s weird but am i overreacting or is it nothing and just tolerate it?

On Monday, I was told that I got the job and to expect a phone call on Tuesday. Only now it’s Thursday and I haven’t heard anything. Not even a reply to my email saying how excited I am & thank you. How would you approach this?

I asked someone to pick up a shift yesterday. Today, my grandma was admitted to the hospital, and I need to go tend to her as well as take care of my young little brother, who lives with my elderly grandfather (our parents aren’t around.) I’m the only really capable one around & they need my help. I let her know I can’t cover her shift the next day, and she said she already made plans. We never talked to the manager, but it’s in the work group chat. Is it my shift to cover or find coverage? What do I do?

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LNL 131 | The changing tides of life

admin Saturday August 20, 2022

What to Do When Life Takes an Unexpected Turn

Blaming yourself or others distracts you from constructive problem-solving.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/turning-straw-gold/202009/what-do-when-life-takes-unexpected-turn-it-just-has

Pesach: The Freedom that comes with the Power to Decide
https://unexpectedlifeturns.com/

Accepting Life’s Unexpected Turns
https://thelinnacademy.com/2022/03/31/accepting-lifes-unexpected-turns/

SEX


Is it ok of me to make an ultimatum to a guy that I won't swallow unless he tries his own cum at least once first?

So I(M) had my first kiss with a good friend(F) tonight, we've known eachother for a year now and we went on a date to see how an "us" would function. At the end of it she insisted we try and kiss; she is experienced and it's my first time; so we ended up kissing and I tried some tongue and the whole mile. Afterwards she just seemed so unsatisfied? Like there wasn't a frown or a smile or blushing or anything. Have i done something wrong?

What is the thing with anal, that makes so many men want it?

Husband tested positive for oral gonorrhea yesterday with throat swab. I tested negative for throat and urine. He was very borderline verbally abusive about how I was cheating and gave it to him from ‘kissing’. Did he cheat?

RELATIONSHIPS


how to stop my family from feeling entitled to come to my city and stay days at my apartment I share?
I am 24F and I share an apartment with one of my closest friends 25M. The apartment is a 2 bedroom so it’s not really that big or small- just a normal sized place in a tourist city. It’s been about 4 times already this year that my family has self invited themselves to stay at my place without asking me prior. My older sibling stayed here over 3 weeks, before leaving, and coming back a month later to stay another 3 nights. The other time it was my mom and aunt staying 2-4 nights out of the blue. How do i tell them this has to stop?

my boyfriend’s cousin disrespected me and punched my boyfriend when he confronted him about it. My boyfriend beat his cousin up and now my partner’s mother wants to meet with me alone to talk about what happened. She begged me to not tell my boyfriend. What do I do?

Should I 21M accept the apology of my bully from school?

He (23M) and I (21F) been dating for 6 months. Official for 3. I am a college student who went to my hometown (an hour away) for the summer. He asked me to be his girlfriend right before I left and we did long distance. He was able to visit about 5-7 times. Two nights ago I moved back in and was now living in the same city as him. I was so excited. But that night I found out he cheated on me. He cheated about two months after I went to my hometown. He kept it a secret and the girl eventually told me. Do I take him back?

PARENTING

Son want's to be called "gargabe man", refuses his given name. Hes two. what do we do now??

How do you all feel about having a “kid free zone” after a certain time before they go to bed? Like for example, 8pm rolls around and your kids go play in their play area or their bedroom away from your living room or where you’re relaxing. They have their technology, toys, etc to play with. They’ve already done all their bedtime routines so no need for you to worry about that later. It’s considered quiet hours and they’re not allowed to come barreling in and bug you during “adult time / kid free zone” typically they’ll stay up to 9:30pm and then get a notification on their clock to let them know it’s time to go to bed (electronics auto turn off then too)

A few days ago we were at a family BBQ and 9ne of my relative's dog suddenly barked and scared my 4 month old daughter, who I was holding at the time. Of course she started crying a little and as I was calming her down, my mother came over to pick her up and went to bring her to my wife, who was talking to some people a little further away telling me that she obviously needed her mommy. And this is just one example of people assuming mom is way more capable than dad.Why do so many people consider dads to be second-rate parents?

My daughter, 11F, today told me she saw something on YouTube called "LittleSpace" and she likes it. She explained it as adults or teens who dress as and act like babies or toddlers. They have a small cozy space in which to wear a onesie, use a pacifier, drink special warm milk from a baby bottle, and color in coloring books. This immediately made me very uncomfortable, but I didn't show it and instead said it sounded cute. She went full on into the conversation, asking if I could buy her pacifiers and a baby bottle. She's already talking about the space she will convert in her room into a cozy spot that she can sit and color in coloring books with a pacifier. She said it can be to wind down at the end of the day, to relieve anxiety, or to that for some people that have "childhood regression" and just live like babies to relive their bad childhood. How concerned should I be about this? Is there a chance this is just something innocent? I wanted to support her, so I played it cool, but inside I am dying. After we talked she went on Amazon and found a pacifier she wanted. She asked me to order it for her, used her own money to pay me. I don't even know what to say. The pacifier is arriving on Sunday and she's has plans to use the weekend to clean her room and get her littlespace ready... Someone help me. What is happening?

WORK
There’s an open wound on my finger from a hangnail and it has pus. I have work tomorrow and a training video said to report any injuries like that to an employer, but it’s just so small I don’t wanna make a big deal out of it. Should I tell my manager or would a bandaid do?

This is the second week of a new job I just started. It's a very small office. My coworker will not stop talking to me all day long, no matter what cues I give for her to stop. All she talks about is terrible things about everyone in the company, what they have done to her, and little ways she has gotten back at them. On top of that she's super nosey, admits to listening in on people's convos, and even showed me the pay rate of a contract worker in the same office (she is accounts payable). This job is a considerable pay raise from my previous job and in every other way pretty awesome. I don't know what to do about this coworker. Help!

I've this temp job for about 6 months now and my contract is coming to an end. HR said, they're trying to open a position for me but I'm not sure if I want it. Well, I think do. This company gives me weird vibes. Overall it's fine. I get paid fine for what I do, people are friendly enough, and my lunches are finally longer than 20 minutes. I must say though, it does get very boring. I only have one issue, and it's kinda more of an department issue, No one knows how to communicate. People will actively avoid talking to one another so when shit hits the fan everyone is annoyed and confused. It turns into hours of "explain everything you do at this job because this shit is confusing me". After hours of this we finally fix the problem, and I feel like total shit. It's like I've been gaslighted for the past few hours. I don't know what it is. It's probably an issue with me but it's really wearing me down after 6 months. I welcome any and all advice.

Found out a coworker is recording zoom calls without letting people know before hand or asking if it’s okay. It makes me uncomfortable; am I wrong to feel that way? They mentioned they were recording half way through a call, after I asked if I needed to slow down, so I don’t think there was any nefarious intent. I told them they should probably ask in the future, but I don’t trust that they will.

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It's OK to cry | LNL 130

admin Saturday August 13, 2022

In a very emotional episode Jazz and Lubby talk about loss

STAGES OF GRIEF: THE 7 STAGES OF GRIEF EXPLAINED
https://gatewaycounseling.com/7-stages-of-grief-explained/

Grief: Coping with the loss of your loved one
Research shows that most people can recover from loss on their own through the passage of time if they have social support and healthy habits.
https://www.apa.org/topics/families/grief

What to Say to Someone Who Lost a Loved One
https://healthfully.com/what-to-say-to-someone-who-lost-a-loved-one-5655196.html

SEX

I’ve (f25) been in a relationship with my bf (m28) for a little over 2 years now. We moved together a year ago, got a flat together and he proposed to me this summer. I said yes and it was one of the best days of my life. I love him very much and I am very compatible with him, except one little thing..
Before we had sex for the first time, he opened up to me and told me how his ex gf left him because of his size. So he went through this already and it caused him serious self esteem problems. I can’t do this to him again. at first it wasn’t so bad, since we were both discovering our bodies and he used to stimulate my mind before everything else, which led me to actually enjoy the sex we had. But as it is normal, that excitement won’t last forever and now I am lacking and craving the sex I had with my ex partners. I can’t even get wet anymore, it’s like my vagina doesn’t even know what penetration feels like. The little penetration that I get is dry and hurts, unless we use lube. I am just tired of faking enjoying myself, but can’ do anything about it. I love him too much for this to be a dealbreaker, but I really don’t know what to do. Is this what my future sex life will be from now on?

My boyfriend and I are each others firsts. We've only been dating for a few months but have really clicked. We usually get to see each other once or twice a week. The problem is, sometimes he finishes within about 7 minutes. I have absolutely no problem with this. I actually think it's kind of flattering. He tends to apologize for it, and I hate him feeling insecure over something natural. Especially because he more than "makes up" for it. My question is: is there anything I could say next time it happens to make him feel better?

I am 25F I've been seeing a guy 27M who has been an acquaintance for a few years. We have already had sex, it's really good, I give him oral all the time as I really enjoy doing so but he is desperate to go down on me and I'm embarrassed, I don't want to be super drunk in order for him to do that, I just want to feel comfortable. I am not a prude, I am a sexual person but I worry about; do men think about women looking bad in angles? How we taste? I feel like there will be more pressure for me to orgasm and that I don't have control of situation, which is usually how I enjoy sex.

Im a girl and Im straight. Ever since I was a kid and I'd find my dad's or my friends' dads porn magazines and videos, I just found the naked girls super hot. Since I was so young, I don't think it was a "Whoa I'd like to look like that and have guys attracted to me" thing because I was literally in primary school and thought sex meant people kissing while being naked, but rather a "Damn. Hot body" thing. I just think female bodies are very attractive, however I've never actually been attracted to a girl before. What's going on?

RELATIONSHIP

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost three years, but one issue keeps me wondering if it’s been genuine or not. From day one he has had huge issues with his phone. If I even glanced over he used to flip out. It’s not so bad anymore but I still am unable to check things out when situations warrant it. On the other hand he uses my phone like it’s his own, and since he is much larger than me I am really unable to do anything about it.
Thoughts ??

I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 6 years. It's long distance but we've had ideas about a future together. I never had a big desire to get married but I would do it for her. Having a kid has been a dream of hers since I met her and recently I've been seriously considering my position and I cant think of any reason I would want to have a kid. I told her this last night and we both broke down. She had been under the impression that I was down for everything and was understandably upset when I told her. She told me she still wanted to stay together but if there came a day I was 100% sure I didnt want kids. I left a possibility of changing my mind because ive changed a lot since I met her and was always hoping my position on this would change too. But now I feel like I'm in charge of deciding when this relationship ends. It was always my biggest fear that we would end up in a situation where she leaves me because I didn't want to have kids and now I'm the one who will have to decide whether or not this relationship will continue. Not even sure I'm asking for advice I just wanted other people's takes on how much of a piece of shit I am.

I’m tired of my fiancé making me set alarms for him to wake up in time for work. And every time I set an alarm and go upstairs to wake him up, he gets pissed at me. So then he will make me set another alarm so he can “have ten more minutes”. Mind you, I’m also busy with our three year old and soon to be newborn coming any time now, cooking, and cleaning. It’s extremely stressful for me to have the job of waking him up as well as everything else. But yet he always tells me he hates it when I try to act like his mother? I wish he would get an actual alarm clock. I finally put my foot down today and said it’s not my responsibility and he said “Okay. I guess I’ll just keep being late for work and lose my job then.” Like it would be my fault. No, it would be his right?

Asked him(44m) to marry me(39f) last night. He said absolutely not then proceeded to get upset when I wasn't "in the mood".I was so vulnerable and honest. I wasn't upset when he said absolutely not but a discussion would have been nice. Then when I wasn't being the fun one on a Friday night because I didn't want to do it, doors got slammed, there was yelling etc. I slept alone and feel so hurt. How do we move past this?

PARTENING

I put parental controls on my teens iPhone, blocking certain apps and websites. Problem is: she’s still somehow accessing them! How?! I’m so confused?

as we prepare to bring a child into our family, MIL has said that regardless of what anyone says or wants, she will be coming to live in our home for 2-3 weeks to take care of the child and her daughter, and insists that this is a completely normal thing that every mother does with their daughter. I’ve never heard this, and neither have the women in my life that I’ve asked, and while I voiced that I was thankful for any help being offered with doing the dishes, laundry, etc (things she mentioned), what she was describing didn’t sit right with me. I’ve always looked forward to this time in our lives and being able to cherish the time with my wife and take care of her, and I pointed out that if my mom were to forcibly come live with us regardless of what my wife or I say to come help with things, that wouldn’t fly. Does this sound normal in your experience?

Should I correct my almost 8 year old son who over talks? Last year his teacher would reach out to us every few months to let us know that he would talk too much in class and sometimes disturb others and that she had resulted to ignoring him when he talks. I also heard the same complaint from my father and I’ve been noticing he does it when he’s around other people. Although he has gotten a lot better in the past few months he still over talks and when I try to bring it up he usually closes his ears and tries to run away. Should I let it go or talk to him about it?

I was at the park with my 3 year old and my 2 month old strapped to my chest. He had fallen asleep with his pacifier in his mouth. He spits it out when he’s ready and he might fall asleep with the pacifier maybe once a day. None of that a total stranger would know, but she came up to me anyway to tell me to take the pacifier out of his mouth. After I told her it is fine, she kept bothering me about it. What really irks me is that she ended up leaving her own child in the park to play alone. So what inspired her to be “supermom” and judgy with me?

WORK

I have a large technical presentation that contains many detailed information and many various topics. I don’t think I can do a good job presenting this in person as there is so much context and will take minimum 1.5 hours to 2 hours. Is it rude to let the client know I can’t make the F2F and will need to attend virtually?

I don't know if I made the right choice. I was a 3rd year apprentice millwright at local 2158 and I chose to leave about 3 months ago and now work for the army Corp of engineers. Each job has their pros and cons but on a personal level I feel like I turned my back to the union and started all over. I could still go back if I wanted to and finish out my apprenticeship and become a journeyman but I'll lose my government job if I do with unknown possibility of going back. I'm just torn and I don't know if I've made the right decision or if I'm just jumping to conclusions too soon because I'm not making the same money.

I'm in the middle of a job hunt. I've had interviews with a few different companies. Currently a strong candidate for a less desirable role. If they come to me wanting to offer me a job, but I'm still scouting all possible options, what are some things I could say to let them know I still *might* be interested, but am waiting to hear back from others?

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