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For the Love Of Love - Late Night Love 141

admin Saturday November 5, 2022


Definition of True Love: 7 Things You Should Know!!! - The-Soul Mate

How Do You Know When You're in Love? Check These 12 Signs - Lifehack

20 Ways to Show Love to Your Spouse - A Thrifty Mom - Recipes, Crafts, DIY and more

10 Ways To Show Teenagers You Love Them

Cheap and Easy Ways To Show Your Co-Workers You Care


RELATIONSHIPS

My husband is very down and he gets like this at least once every 6 months or so. I'm a very happy, upbeat person and I really want to help him but I don't know what the are the right things to do or say. I just tell him its not so bad, lets fix the problems but it doesn't help. How do I help him?

I found non-consensual naked pictures of myself on my boyfriends phone.
we are in our early/mid twenties and have together for almost a year. We went on a trip this past weekend and while I was looking at pictures, I saw some of myself sleeping naked from a week or two ago. It wasn’t one blurry shot that was taken accidentally. How do I confront him about this?

I (4 feet 11 inches, not fat but not a gym bunny either) dated a guy and everything was going good until one day he asked me : “Don’t you wish you were taller with a flat stomach?” I broke up with him because I was so hurt by what he said and felt like it would never work because I’ll never be taller anyway. He wants me back years later but I just can’t seem to get over those comments. Am I being too harsh on him?

My bf has issues with porn; I would say he’s addicted. Last night, he admitted he prefers porn over me. And I’m feeling awful today, and embarrassed as if there’s something wrong with me or like I’m not good enough. What do I do now?

PARENTING

My partner and I want another child. My middle son is adamant we don't. Our kids are 18, 8 and 4. My 8 yo is on the spectrum and doesn't get along with his younger brother. When we talked to the kids about the possibility of another sibling, he said "absolutely not. Babies and little kids are the worst. Please don't." How do we get him to change his mind?

{'m UK based. My daughter is 4 in a month. When I went to pick her up from preschool today a lady came out of school and explained she was partner the pastoral team and that she needed to speak to me. My daughter has said on the carpet this morning that 'Daddy hits mummy a lot.' He doesn't and never has done anything like that. We play around a lot with the kids things like he pretends to be a monster and we run away and he tickles us that sort of stuff. I explained this to the teacher but I have no idea if she believed me or not. What do I do about this?

Toddler awake until 4 and 5 am the past few weeks. Wife doesn’t want him to cry at bedtime so we go through the “bath and story and lights out routine, but if he cries, she lets him eat, watch TV, and play until he’s finally tired. I was raised to have a set bedtime…like 9or 10pm, and I was in my bed no matter what. She says respectful parenting involves not letting him cry. Doesn’t want to give him that stress. I love her and my little guy, but we’re butting heads on this one. Any ideas?

I just wanted advice on how to talk to him about it he’s 10 and I usually look at what he watches mostly because we have a shared YouTube account and I look up his browser history and stuff in his tablet. Thankfully he hasn’t been searching for inappropriate stuff but he does search for a lot of gay stuff. I want my son to be comfortable in his house with me and I just don’t know how to talk about it with him. Like if you were gay or curious how would you have wanted your father to talk to you or what should I do like should I mind my own business?

SEX

I 25M have gotten into a casual relationship 27F and I feel like I'm using her. How do I get out?

My gf masturbates like everyday with toys as well sometimes but we only have sex like twice a week maybe. Is that bad?

I don’t want my partner to just ask me ‘wanna have sex?’ I need more stimulation or something to get me in the mood first. How do I get him to do this?

I send money to women online, in return they will basically abuse me, and often demand more money from me. I enjoy this as a kink but it’s gotten out of control. Now I can’t stop doing it and it’s literally ruining my life. I’ve spent thousands already and it’s like an addiction for me. Try to think of it as gambling addiction, or similar. How do I quit?

WORK

I am a 40hr/wk employee and have been frustrated with my 30 minute unpaid lunch break, which is automatically applied once I hit 6.5 hours for that day. Most of the time I do not take that long for a lunch break am usually doing work at my computer simultaneously. More frustratingly, if on a Friday I only have 6.75 hours to work I have to wait 30 minutes for that break to end until I can finish my 15 minutes. I recently found out that only my department has it and my supervisor was unaware that it was just us and no other department. How do I get him to change?

Is it normal to feel like you’re back in grade school breaking into a new career, but this time without teachers. And you’re getting mixed signals of confidence

Long story short I’ve interviewed for a job and they told me it’s to replace the person currently in that role who is leaving. I did some digging on LinkedIn and found out that person has only been at the company for 5 months. I find it a bit concerning that they are leaving after so short a time there. Would it be a bad idea to message them and ask them about what it’s like to work there and in that role?

New memo we got. We are required to be in the office 2x a week, and 3x for some. If we need to work from home, it's now counted as an attendance violation/call out and we are not considered "working" so are encouraged to use PTO instead, if necessary. The same tablets we use at home is the one we carry into the office. Is this a new trend or somethin'?

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For The Love Of Halloween - LNL140

admin Saturday October 29, 2022


31 Fun Halloween Facts You Didn't Know - Halloween Trivia (thepioneerwoman.com)

The 10 Best Kid-Friendly Halloween Movies (screenrant.com)

Top 10 Halloween Movies (for Adults) - IMDb

The 45 Best Halloween Games for Kids and Adults (countryliving.com)

Halloween Party Checklist: Planning the Perfect Halloween Party (realsimple.com)

RELATIONSHIPS

How do you process the fact they will be out of your life forever after a breakup?
I can stop thinking about the fact that I will literally lose my best friend, lover, and most important person in my life for a while, out of my life - forever. It feels like I am mourning a death. I am jealous they are still in the lives of other people, but can’t be in mine. I don’t want them to just be a memory. I already have abandonment issues, so this realization totally breaks me. I feel like I can’t continue on. How do you process this - especially when you feel the breakup was your fault? How do you cope?

My husband shared my nudes with a friend. I feel betrayed. How do I move on from this?

I (F21) farted during sex with a guy (M20). I was mortified! He just got up and left. How do I appologize?

I (22 F) just learned my parents cheated on each other and I'm super disgusted at them. How do I avoid turning out like them?

PARENTING

How do you politely tell your teenager their makeup looks ridiculous?

Oh god. I just quit my job so I could spend the next year at home with my 3.5 year old before she goes off to school and is a big kid. Finally in a financial position that I can do this. Just freaking out and yelling into the void. Loved my job and my coworkers so this isn't an easy thing, just don't want to regret working my time away with her. Please tell me I made an okay decision.

Where do some parents find free time?

I have a week old baby and she goes to sleep on her own in her Moses basket during the day with no issues. However, when it comes to doing the same in her cot at night she just won’t settle until 5am at the earliest. We’ll put her down and she wakes almost immediately and won’t settle until she’s held. We’ve tried white noise, only feeding in the dark etc but it doesn’t seem to make a difference. What are we doing wrong?

WORK

Is it a bad idea to bring up to my manager but I want to try a different job at my work, after only being applied there for four months?

My supervisor (50M) may or may not be flirting with me (21F). What do I do?

My boss has made my resignation a nightmare. How do I complete my notice period?

I just started my second week back at my old job. I’ve been throwing up today and don’t think I can make it to work. I’ve asked people to cover but no one can. How bad would it be if I called out?

SEX

my (30f) partner (30m) is insecure because I use a vibrator to orgasm. How do I make him understand its me and not him?

I need a professional cuddler so badly but there's none close by in my area. What should I do?

Is it just me or there are other women out there who also feel the sudden urge to cry after having an orgasm?

Sex with pets in the room - yes or no?

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Toddlers, Teens and Relationships, Oh My - LNL 139

admin Saturday October 15, 2022


List of Effective Parenting Tips and Skills for Toddlers (firstcry.com)

50+ Super Fun Things to do with Toddlers (Easy & Fun Activities) (rookiemoms.com)

5 Tips for Handling Tantrums - Free Spirit Freelance

11 tips for having a great first day of school - Care.com Resources

RELATIONSHIPS


I’m financially stuck living at home for another year or so until I pay off my debt. Is there any way to get my mom to stop opening my mail and packages?

25F My boyfriend 25M told me he is jealous of my job and how I spend my money. Can this be worked through?

Hi, i would like your advice/opinion, please don’t hold back. I’m a 22yo girl, i haven’t a boyfriend and i haven’t had one for YEARS, so i’m really late for all the sexual stuff compared to all my friends. The thing is that i don’t really like the idea of losing my virginity to someone i don’t love just to do so (i don’t want to wait until marriage, i just think being the first time i would like to wait for a guy that i really like), but i’m 22 and most of my friends are “pushing” me to just do it because at my age i should have some experience. They say that it’s just sex and i should’t wait. I don’t like the idea, i don’t think i could be able to do it with someone i don’t have an emotional connection with. This is causing me a lot of insecurities. What do you think i should listen to my friend just so when i met the right guy i will have experience?

I'm the mother of a 14-year-old who just started high school. We went on a trip to the lake over the weekend (my son, a few friends, and a few of the moms) and I was the only mom there who was wearing a bikini. Is this embarassing for a teenage boy? Do boys even care?

PARENTING


My lovely lovely son is 4, and we’ve been potty training for 18 months. I’ve tried to keep it low pressure, but now I second guess everything I ever did. I am so so tired of poop pants. I’m at the point where I’m throwing underwear away because I just can’t do it anymore! Poop is now a trigger for me. I get so scared there’s poop just everywhere in the house. I stepped on a real live human turd the other day and honestly I have no idea if it was from him or my 2 year old. Does this ever end??

We have a four and two year old. Often, when we are out of the room, some type of conflict will arise between the two of them and one of them will start crying (generally, the two year old). We’ll come in and try to figure out what happened and they’ll both blame one another and say it was the other person’s fault, yada yada. We always struggle with how to handle these situations because a) we didn’t actually see what happened and b) they’re so young that I’m often not sure how reliable the information they’re providing is. How do you tell who is telling the truth?

So I am at a complete loss with our oldest son. He is 11 years old and for a little back ground we just moved from the city to a rural area so he is attending a new smaller school this year. He's done pretty good so far. We bought a lot of acreage so it's new and exciting and we've had a lot of fun adventures so far. He is keeping good grades and making some friends but something that has come up is his behavior at school.
I have been getting calls from the school for his behavior. It's typical things like, not listening to the teachers. For example one incident he had a stuffed banana he was throwing around in the classroom and even when the teacher repeatedly asked him not to, he kept doing it so she confiscated it. The problem is that he sees himself as the victim when that happens. It's like he is not connecting that his consequences have actions. He also got written up on the bus for repeatedly standing up during driving even after being warned over multiple days. Today I get a call that he stuck a wad of paper in the tail pipe of someone's truck in the parking lot during recess and they truck turned out to be the principals!! Who was not happy at all about it. We have been trying to talk with him and ask him why he is doing this? He said that basically he is trying to get the other kids to laugh. So basically like a class clown thing. My question is how do we deal with this effectively?

SEX


So I (F18) have been talking to this guy (M18) for a while now. We’ve been out together 3 times. On our 2nd hang out, he tried to pursue sex with me and I told him I was a virgin and wasn’t ready yet which he completely understood. Instead we just did “hand stuff” (if you know what I mean). On our latest hang out (3rd one), he said he wanted to get to know me better. So we spent most of the time talking. At some point we started intensely making out. When I asked if could go to the back seat to take things further, he said that we should wait and that he wanted to get his std test results back. And that we could do it when “the time is right”. After that conversation he immediately decided to take me home. So I’m wondering is he disgusted by my virginity? Does he not want to be with me? Or am I overthinking it?

i like being dominated and degraded a lot. i like to be consensually hurt and fucked how ever he pleases it really turns me on to know he will do whatever he wants to me. is it strange i like to be so degraded?

WORK


I gave my notice period a week ago and since then a boss of mine totaly ignores my calls and immediately call a coworker who sits next to me whenever im trying to reach him. I'm trying my best to stay professional and productive to my last day but this irresponsible behaviour is so annoying. How do I get him to return my calls?

I used to work my butt off and would do it with a smile. I know I can be good at my job, but I just 1. Don’t care anymore 2. People still think I’m good at my job (so maybe I am, but I know I’m not giving 💯) so I actually don’t try because I get by with what’s perceived. Far enough in my career that I won’t change. I don’t know what else I’d do anyway. And a lot of people would kill for my job. I don’t mean to sound ungrateful, it’s just really hard to give AF. I feel like an imposter. How do change this?

My company has hired 4 department leaders (myself included) in the last year or so. During that time, two have quit, and the most recent hire HATES coming into work every day. I completely understand where my coworkers are coming from. Our boss can be controlling and stubborn at times, and the work culture is kind of toxic. How do I help?