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I (m19) am part of an "anonymous cuddling group", and my mother (f50) who I live with disapproves. How do I get her to understand this is harmless?

I (26F) just got married and my mom (60sF) has some issue with me/my wedding and won’t admit it, but now my dad wants me to meet with her. I’m tired of her judgment and don’t want to “talk it out”. I dont want to talk it out. How do I avoid this?

The guy I’m dating slapped me during sex and I don’t know how I feel about it. Is this what everyone is doing now?

Should I (24F) lie to my dad (52M) about my income to avoid giving him money?

WORK

I have been dealing with job PTSD. However, i feel like no matter where you work, you will always find backstabbing people and bullies at work. And that you should be highly skilled in dealing with these people or else, you are screwed.. Are most jobs like that where you have to constantly watch your back?

Part time worker full time college student, want to find a new job but have no idea where to start. Honestly my only requirements are to not work over 25 hours per week and above minimum wage if possible. There is nothing on indeed or linkdin in my area and nobody can tell me how to find a new job. How do I find a new job?

How can I stop my customers from making their emergencies my emergency?

How to be incisive and give orders without being an a-hole?

PARENTING

My wife has dreamed of having a little girl since she was 5 and we've recently learned that we're having twin boys. She's obviously devastated. How can I help her through this?

Is it okay for a parent to display sexual images of themselves on bedroom wall?

My 5 year old was sick a lot the last few months. Now they are better and flat out refusing to go to school. I have a 1 year old as well and no car in the Canadian winter (husband needs it to get to work). We walk to school, 10 minute walk. He just keeps repeating he doesn't want to go. Not like I can drag him there with a 1 year old. Any suggestions?

13yo having friendship troubles. was it inappropriate for the other parent to text my son?

SEX

I (18F) had my first time a few weeks ago and I kept wondering why the guy I had sex with barely ever touched me. I know porn isn’t a real representation and anyway I rarely watch some, so I don’t really know what sex should be like. Is sex always this boring?

I've (36/f) been making a complete fool of myself. Basically throwing myself at my husband (45/m) in ever more desperate ways. Our sex life has been fluctuating for a while, it's been mostly slowing way down but there are some weeks when we actually have more sex than ever. Not for many months now though. I can't figure out how to keep it going. How do I make my husband want me?

My GF (24F) and I (22M) were celebrating two years together the other night, and it did not end well. Just for some context, I was her first, but she wasn't mine, so I've always tried to be patient. That night, We weren't planning on having sex, but she was being pushy and said she wanted to go down on me. I went down on her first as always, and once she came, she said she wasn't feeling like it anymore. I called her selfish. Was I wrong?

For those who have prescription glasses with an high eye power, do the glasses stay on or off during sex? I'm blind as a bat

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10 Interesting Thanksgiving Facts to Share around the Table (crosswalk.com)

10 Fun Facts About the Wild Turkey

60 Things To Be Thankful For In Life - Lifehack

15 Ways to Give Back to the Community - Easy Donation Pickup

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I’m an artist. I create nude art. My boyfriend is not happy with it. I have recently created photography representing nudity with my other artist friend(same gender). Photography is basically my naked body and it does NOT have any sexual appeal in my art. My boyfriend is clearly not happy with it. He believes that sacred naked body should only be shared within the couple. No one else. He said this is his boundaries and I am crossing his boundaries and hurting his feeling when I know how he would feel. How do I get him to accept this creative part of me?

My husband compliments his brother's girlfriend constantly, but doesn't to me because "I should already know". How do I get him to compliment me too?

My wife and I have a routine on Friday nights we watch the tv show house hunters together while we snuggle up on the couch together. My mom says I’m weird because of it. Am I weird?

My best friend’s brother (29M) moved into my (32F) spare room at the beginning of the pandemic as he quickly needed somewhere to live. It was only meant to be temporary but he ended up staying long term as we were very compatible as housemates. We fell in love and are now in a relationship. The problem is my best friend does not approve. She won't talk to either of us. How do we deal with her?

PARENTING

Can you “smell” when your kids are about to get sick? My kids smell different. As soon as I get a whiff of their “sick smell” I can’t get it out of my nose. My husband thinks I am some kind of wizard.

Would you provide Baileys for parents at a child’s morning birthday party?

5 y/o keeps loosening his seatbelt. That’s it. That’s the issue. We’ve told him nicely, we’ve told him angrily. We’ve incentivized, we’ve punished. He does not care about anything but his own will in the exact moment. This is a safety issue so we cant budge. Help!

Would it be tacky to not get gifts for our 1yo twins this Christmas? Not as any kind of punishment or deprivation, just to clarify. My husband and I are bringing the twins to my mother’s this Christmas, and the whole family is coming. They’re the only babies in my generation and I know they’re just going to get showered with presents from immediate and extended family who hasn’t met them yet.

WORK

Been with my company for 5 years. Mostly no problems and really like my job overall. Recently been promoted and coworkers who I once got along with just fine for years suddenly treating me badly. Petty, bitchy stuff. I’ve tried to ignore it but I’m at a point where it’s finally wearing me down and making me feel sick with stress. I’m feeling like I don’t want to be here anymore which is a shame because apart from a handful of big egos everything else is fine and I get along with my boss well. I don't want to get caught up in the drama and the back and forth passive aggressive emails. How do I stop it from getting to me?

Is it okay to cancel an internship I said I would accept, 15 days before its starting date?

I work at a waste transfer station as a scale attendant. My coworker who works on my days off complained to our site manager that the garbage truck drivers are “stinky” so they held a meeting informing them that they cannot use the heated bathroom and must instead use the outhouse that is out side in the sub 32 degree Fahrenheit temperatures. Is that even legal?

So I got sick with the flu (i think) on Saturday. I texted my boss letting her know I wasn't going to be in on Monday. No response. I texted her Monday night letting her know I wouldn't be in Tuesday because I was still really ill. Still no response. It is now Tuesday night, I tried calling her and she didn't answer. I called my coworker at closing today and they told me my Boss was in today but that she was busy during that time, so I asked my coworker to have her call me. It has now been almost 3 hours since and I haven't received any calls or texts from my Boss and I just want to cry. What do I do?

SEX

I hookup with guys cos I have no friends and I just needed that human contact and communication. Is that wrong?

Men — would you use male birth control?

My best friend and I live together, up until now we weren't sexual with each other...Now that's changed immensely. Have I lost my best friend?

My(18F) boyfriend (19M) found a way to make me lose control and I’m embarrassed. How can I tone it back?

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Recognizing Anger Signs (mentalhelp.net)

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Anger Management For Teens - Meaning - Causes - Tips To Manage (mantracare.org)

RELATIONSHIPS

I (24F) just told my partner (31M) that I cheated on him last week. We've been together for over 8 years and are engaged. It was online sex with a stranger, I tried to avoid any excuses or justifications when telling him, just what happened, that I was really sorry, that it was something completely selfish, that I didn't take in consideration his feelings, that I didn't think of anything. He asked little to no questions. He layed there not facing me for 2 minutes and then got up and went to work (backyard). I tried approaching him and just said can we talk? But he said no. He's passed by me a couple times looking for things and has seen me crying, but I haven't said anything more. What can i do to help him get over this?

Me(20) and my gf(21) have been together for almost 1 year. She has always been a crybaby about stuff, and i have always done things to be the best for her, sacrifing my own time, money and relationships with other close persons of mine. But recently, she has been worse. She got mad for stupid things (not waking up to text her good morning before she goes into class) and threatened to break up every single time, 3 times in 4 days to be more specific. Everytime she got mad, i surprised her, brought her flowers, chocolate, went to her place which is 1 hour from mine just to come back to mine 40 minutes later and so on. She even told me that if i don't do exactly like she says she is going to break up with me because she is the most beautiful girl and sacrifice is required. I love her a lot but is this really worth it?

My (M24) Fiancé (F23) has a friend that tried to have sex with her and she still wants to be friends with her, I don’t know how to feel or what to do.

My (m21) Gf(f 21) and I have been dating for about a year now. I feel like I had a very heavy attachment style due to a variety of factors like being away from family and having less friends meanwhile our school is in her hometown with her family and all of her friends. Because I loved her so much, I would always drop at a moments notice to do anything for her, and I was happy to do so because I love her, but I started feeling hurt when I didn't receive the same in return so I stopped. She is asking why I don't do those things anymore. What do I tell her?

PARENTING

Hey parents. My mom, and the grandmother to my 6 year old son, is dating. She tends to want us all to meet the men she is dating (when they are at the point where they are consistently dating or getting more serious which happens pretty fast generally), and I feel uncomfortable with my son meeting them because I don’t know how long they’ll be around and I don’t want him to be attached and sad if he doesn’t see them anymore. He’s 6 and for context has met 4 guys in those 6 years, but probably would only remember 2 of them. Would you allow your child to continue meeting their grandparents dates?

My husband and I were raised in a very strict community where alcohol was prohibited. Now that were adults, we've left and enjoy a drink now and then. We store our alcohol up high, but it's not locked because our toddler simply can't reach it. At what age do most start locking up alcohol?

We are after an app that let's us track our daughters periods (3 girls) Are there any Apps that will let you allow to track multiple periods?

How much responsibility do you leave on the 6th grader with school work?

SEX

My girlfriend told me she wants to watch me fuck her hot friend. Is this a trap?

Ive been on a few dates with this girl, and last night she came back to mine. I cook her a nice meal and we start watching a movie. One thing leads to another and we start making out on the couch, I was way too excited and before I know it I just completely explode in my pants without her even touching me. Afterwards I apologise and she reassures me it's OK, but I can't get over the humiliation and know if we meet up again the same thing will probably happen. I'm not sure how to even suggest trying again now and whether I should talk about what happened more with her?

I'm a 19yo guy and my best friend is a lesbian who's 20. About 2 weeks ago, she told me that she was curious about what sex with the opposite gender must feel like. She asked me if I would let her have sex with me and I consented. But I've been feeling really guilty about this ever since we did it. For some reason she really enjoyed it and wants to do it again. I feel like I've violated who she truly is and I feel so bad. I don't know how I have influenced her sexuality but I really shouldn't have done that. What do I do now?

Is sexting cheating?

WORK

I work in a freezer and today I slipped on ice and fell and busted my hand and wrist up. It is swollen and bruised. My fingers feel numb and I can't move my fingers or my wrist without pain shooting down my wrist. My employer kept having me rest and ice the injury and return to work and repeat. It's been about 16 hours since the injury and I still cannot feel my fingers or move them or my wrist. My employer told me multiple times that it was only stoved and if it was injured worse, there would be more swelling and bruising. It's like they did everything to avoid having my hand medically treated. The pain is enough that tylenol/ibuprofen won't take the edge away. What should I do?

My mindset is: let's get this done so we can leave. My coworkers' mindset is: we're here anyway so I'm going to take my time. How do I shift to that mentality and stop picking up the slack?

got an email from my boss that's telling me and my co-workers to do first aid training (bakery), don't have time for that because of online school/full time work. do I legally have to do it?