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Love Yourself By Managing Your Anger - LNL 142

admin Saturday November 12, 2022


Recognizing Anger Signs (mentalhelp.net)


How to Control Anger: 25 Tips to Manage Your Anger and Feel Calmer (healthline.com)


How to help kids with anger: 7 key tips for helping them manage this feeling - Care.com Resources


Anger Management For Teens - Meaning - Causes - Tips To Manage (mantracare.org)


RELATIONSHIPS

I (24F) just told my partner (31M) that I cheated on him last week. We've been together for over 8 years and are engaged. It was online sex with a stranger, I tried to avoid any excuses or justifications when telling him, just what happened, that I was really sorry, that it was something completely selfish, that I didn't take in consideration his feelings, that I didn't think of anything. He asked little to no questions. He layed there not facing me for 2 minutes and then got up and went to work (backyard). I tried approaching him and just said can we talk? But he said no. He's passed by me a couple times looking for things and has seen me crying, but I haven't said anything more. What can i do to help him get over this?

Me(20) and my gf(21) have been together for almost 1 year. She has always been a crybaby about stuff, and i have always done things to be the best for her, sacrifing my own time, money and relationships with other close persons of mine. But recently, she has been worse. She got mad for stupid things (not waking up to text her good morning before she goes into class) and threatened to break up every single time, 3 times in 4 days to be more specific. Everytime she got mad, i surprised her, brought her flowers, chocolate, went to her place which is 1 hour from mine just to come back to mine 40 minutes later and so on. She even told me that if i don't do exactly like she says she is going to break up with me because she is the most beautiful girl and sacrifice is required. I love her a lot but is this really worth it?

My (M24) Fiancé (F23) has a friend that tried to have sex with her and she still wants to be friends with her, I don’t know how to feel or what to do.

My (m21) Gf(f 21) and I have been dating for about a year now. I feel like I had a very heavy attachment style due to a variety of factors like being away from family and having less friends meanwhile our school is in her hometown with her family and all of her friends. Because I loved her so much, I would always drop at a moments notice to do anything for her, and I was happy to do so because I love her, but I started feeling hurt when I didn't receive the same in return so I stopped. She is asking why I don't do those things anymore. What do I tell her?


PARENTING

Hey parents. My mom, and the grandmother to my 6 year old son, is dating. She tends to want us all to meet the men she is dating (when they are at the point where they are consistently dating or getting more serious which happens pretty fast generally), and I feel uncomfortable with my son meeting them because I don’t know how long they’ll be around and I don’t want him to be attached and sad if he doesn’t see them anymore. He’s 6 and for context has met 4 guys in those 6 years, but probably would only remember 2 of them. Would you allow your child to continue meeting their grandparents dates?

My husband and I were raised in a very strict community where alcohol was prohibited. Now that were adults, we've left and enjoy a drink now and then. We store our alcohol up high, but it's not locked because our toddler simply can't reach it. At what age do most start locking up alcohol?

We are after an app that let's us track our daughters periods (3 girls) Are there any Apps that will let you allow to track multiple periods?

How much responsibility do you leave on the 6th grader with school work?


SEX

My girlfriend told me she wants to watch me fuck her hot friend. Is this a trap?

Ive been on a few dates with this girl, and last night she came back to mine. I cook her a nice meal and we start watching a movie. One thing leads to another and we start making out on the couch, I was way too excited and before I know it I just completely explode in my pants without her even touching me. Afterwards I apologise and she reassures me it's OK, but I can't get over the humiliation and know if we meet up again the same thing will probably happen. I'm not sure how to even suggest trying again now and whether I should talk about what happened more with her?

I'm a 19yo guy and my best friend is a lesbian who's 20. About 2 weeks ago, she told me that she was curious about what sex with the opposite gender must feel like. She asked me if I would let her have sex with me and I consented. But I've been feeling really guilty about this ever since we did it. For some reason she really enjoyed it and wants to do it again. I feel like I've violated who she truly is and I feel so bad. I don't know how I have influenced her sexuality but I really shouldn't have done that. What do I do now?

Is sexting cheating?


WORK

I work in a freezer and today I slipped on ice and fell and busted my hand and wrist up. It is swollen and bruised. My fingers feel numb and I can't move my fingers or my wrist without pain shooting down my wrist. My employer kept having me rest and ice the injury and return to work and repeat. It's been about 16 hours since the injury and I still cannot feel my fingers or move them or my wrist. My employer told me multiple times that it was only stoved and if it was injured worse, there would be more swelling and bruising. It's like they did everything to avoid having my hand medically treated. The pain is enough that tylenol/ibuprofen won't take the edge away. What should I do?

My mindset is: let's get this done so we can leave. My coworkers' mindset is: we're here anyway so I'm going to take my time. How do I shift to that mentality and stop picking up the slack?

got an email from my boss that's telling me and my co-workers to do first aid training (bakery), don't have time for that because of online school/full time work. do I legally have to do it?

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RELATIONSHIPS

My husband is very down and he gets like this at least once every 6 months or so. I'm a very happy, upbeat person and I really want to help him but I don't know what the are the right things to do or say. I just tell him its not so bad, lets fix the problems but it doesn't help. How do I help him?

I found non-consensual naked pictures of myself on my boyfriends phone.
we are in our early/mid twenties and have together for almost a year. We went on a trip this past weekend and while I was looking at pictures, I saw some of myself sleeping naked from a week or two ago. It wasn’t one blurry shot that was taken accidentally. How do I confront him about this?

I (4 feet 11 inches, not fat but not a gym bunny either) dated a guy and everything was going good until one day he asked me : “Don’t you wish you were taller with a flat stomach?” I broke up with him because I was so hurt by what he said and felt like it would never work because I’ll never be taller anyway. He wants me back years later but I just can’t seem to get over those comments. Am I being too harsh on him?

My bf has issues with porn; I would say he’s addicted. Last night, he admitted he prefers porn over me. And I’m feeling awful today, and embarrassed as if there’s something wrong with me or like I’m not good enough. What do I do now?

PARENTING

My partner and I want another child. My middle son is adamant we don't. Our kids are 18, 8 and 4. My 8 yo is on the spectrum and doesn't get along with his younger brother. When we talked to the kids about the possibility of another sibling, he said "absolutely not. Babies and little kids are the worst. Please don't." How do we get him to change his mind?

{'m UK based. My daughter is 4 in a month. When I went to pick her up from preschool today a lady came out of school and explained she was partner the pastoral team and that she needed to speak to me. My daughter has said on the carpet this morning that 'Daddy hits mummy a lot.' He doesn't and never has done anything like that. We play around a lot with the kids things like he pretends to be a monster and we run away and he tickles us that sort of stuff. I explained this to the teacher but I have no idea if she believed me or not. What do I do about this?

Toddler awake until 4 and 5 am the past few weeks. Wife doesn’t want him to cry at bedtime so we go through the “bath and story and lights out routine, but if he cries, she lets him eat, watch TV, and play until he’s finally tired. I was raised to have a set bedtime…like 9or 10pm, and I was in my bed no matter what. She says respectful parenting involves not letting him cry. Doesn’t want to give him that stress. I love her and my little guy, but we’re butting heads on this one. Any ideas?

I just wanted advice on how to talk to him about it he’s 10 and I usually look at what he watches mostly because we have a shared YouTube account and I look up his browser history and stuff in his tablet. Thankfully he hasn’t been searching for inappropriate stuff but he does search for a lot of gay stuff. I want my son to be comfortable in his house with me and I just don’t know how to talk about it with him. Like if you were gay or curious how would you have wanted your father to talk to you or what should I do like should I mind my own business?

SEX

I 25M have gotten into a casual relationship 27F and I feel like I'm using her. How do I get out?

My gf masturbates like everyday with toys as well sometimes but we only have sex like twice a week maybe. Is that bad?

I don’t want my partner to just ask me ‘wanna have sex?’ I need more stimulation or something to get me in the mood first. How do I get him to do this?

I send money to women online, in return they will basically abuse me, and often demand more money from me. I enjoy this as a kink but it’s gotten out of control. Now I can’t stop doing it and it’s literally ruining my life. I’ve spent thousands already and it’s like an addiction for me. Try to think of it as gambling addiction, or similar. How do I quit?

WORK

I am a 40hr/wk employee and have been frustrated with my 30 minute unpaid lunch break, which is automatically applied once I hit 6.5 hours for that day. Most of the time I do not take that long for a lunch break am usually doing work at my computer simultaneously. More frustratingly, if on a Friday I only have 6.75 hours to work I have to wait 30 minutes for that break to end until I can finish my 15 minutes. I recently found out that only my department has it and my supervisor was unaware that it was just us and no other department. How do I get him to change?

Is it normal to feel like you’re back in grade school breaking into a new career, but this time without teachers. And you’re getting mixed signals of confidence

Long story short I’ve interviewed for a job and they told me it’s to replace the person currently in that role who is leaving. I did some digging on LinkedIn and found out that person has only been at the company for 5 months. I find it a bit concerning that they are leaving after so short a time there. Would it be a bad idea to message them and ask them about what it’s like to work there and in that role?

New memo we got. We are required to be in the office 2x a week, and 3x for some. If we need to work from home, it's now counted as an attendance violation/call out and we are not considered "working" so are encouraged to use PTO instead, if necessary. The same tablets we use at home is the one we carry into the office. Is this a new trend or somethin'?

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For The Love Of Halloween - LNL140

admin Saturday October 29, 2022


31 Fun Halloween Facts You Didn't Know - Halloween Trivia (thepioneerwoman.com)

The 10 Best Kid-Friendly Halloween Movies (screenrant.com)

Top 10 Halloween Movies (for Adults) - IMDb

The 45 Best Halloween Games for Kids and Adults (countryliving.com)

Halloween Party Checklist: Planning the Perfect Halloween Party (realsimple.com)

RELATIONSHIPS

How do you process the fact they will be out of your life forever after a breakup?
I can stop thinking about the fact that I will literally lose my best friend, lover, and most important person in my life for a while, out of my life - forever. It feels like I am mourning a death. I am jealous they are still in the lives of other people, but can’t be in mine. I don’t want them to just be a memory. I already have abandonment issues, so this realization totally breaks me. I feel like I can’t continue on. How do you process this - especially when you feel the breakup was your fault? How do you cope?

My husband shared my nudes with a friend. I feel betrayed. How do I move on from this?

I (F21) farted during sex with a guy (M20). I was mortified! He just got up and left. How do I appologize?

I (22 F) just learned my parents cheated on each other and I'm super disgusted at them. How do I avoid turning out like them?

PARENTING

How do you politely tell your teenager their makeup looks ridiculous?

Oh god. I just quit my job so I could spend the next year at home with my 3.5 year old before she goes off to school and is a big kid. Finally in a financial position that I can do this. Just freaking out and yelling into the void. Loved my job and my coworkers so this isn't an easy thing, just don't want to regret working my time away with her. Please tell me I made an okay decision.

Where do some parents find free time?

I have a week old baby and she goes to sleep on her own in her Moses basket during the day with no issues. However, when it comes to doing the same in her cot at night she just won’t settle until 5am at the earliest. We’ll put her down and she wakes almost immediately and won’t settle until she’s held. We’ve tried white noise, only feeding in the dark etc but it doesn’t seem to make a difference. What are we doing wrong?

WORK

Is it a bad idea to bring up to my manager but I want to try a different job at my work, after only being applied there for four months?

My supervisor (50M) may or may not be flirting with me (21F). What do I do?

My boss has made my resignation a nightmare. How do I complete my notice period?

I just started my second week back at my old job. I’ve been throwing up today and don’t think I can make it to work. I’ve asked people to cover but no one can. How bad would it be if I called out?

SEX

my (30f) partner (30m) is insecure because I use a vibrator to orgasm. How do I make him understand its me and not him?

I need a professional cuddler so badly but there's none close by in my area. What should I do?

Is it just me or there are other women out there who also feel the sudden urge to cry after having an orgasm?

Sex with pets in the room - yes or no?

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