Late Night Love 127 | A Night on Forgiveness

admin Saturday July 9, 2022

How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You in 7 Steps (stanleycyang.com) https://stanleycyang.com/how-to-forgive-someone

How to Forgive Someone that Deeply Hurt You - TheHopeLine https://www.thehopeline.com/how-to-forgive/

10 Easy Ways to Forget Someone Who Hurt You Deeply - easyWays https://www.easyways.net/10-easy-ways-forget-someone-hurt-deeply/

How to Forgive Yourself: 9 Tips For Self Forgiveness - Choosing Therapy https://www.choosingtherapy.com/how-to-forgive-yourself/

How to Forgive Yourself (and Actually Mean It) | SELF https://www.self.com/story/how-to-forgive-yourself

QUESTIONS

I’ve been dating my boyfriend (28m) for just under 8 months. He works in a small industry and makes ~60k a year. Which of course is a impressive salary and a massive achievement in his field, and I’m genuinely proud of what he has done. He is from a small town with small town values. Everything was going great, until recently. We have a lot in common and get along really well. Money has never been a issue until now, and I’ve always insisted on paying for dates 50/50. Yesterday he said that he was uncomfortable with how much more money I made then he did. He said I should slow down my career so I could be at home more often, and to let him be the “man of the house”. I was honestly speechless and have been staying at my sisters ever since. At this point I’m strongly considering leaving. I’ve been though similar situations with exs. any ideas on how to get this to stop happening?

My (20f) bf(23m) and I have been together for 3.5 years he Butt dialled me last night while talking to his friends about other girls bodies and he than made a comment if this girl shows up tonight he’s fuck her. He doesn’t know he called me what do I do?

I’m happily married and I feel like my husband is one of the only people on the planet who gets me and loves me for who I am. The rest of my relationships….I just feel unlikable. Like there is something I put out into the world that I’m unaware of that causes people to want to avoid me. I’ve never really had the proverbial “BFF” whose family is like mine and vice versa. I’m always a fringe friend. Work is the same way - I see cliques of coworkers and feel like I’m excluded, talked down to, and treated as if I don’t belong. After 35 years it is wearing on me greatly. I’m lonely. I have incredible social anxiety now. I prefer spending time by myself which of course doesn’t help anything. I literally don’t know what I do that is off-putting to others. I think I’m friendly albeit quiet. I try to let people know I care. I try to help if I see a coworker struggling. I smile at people when I see them and say hello. Maybe I’m unknowingly abrasive? I don’t know.

My significant others 14 year old son is borderline autistic. His son lives with his mom, and the mom doesn't care for the child at all. He has no sense of personal hygiene, or care for anything other than video games and hanging out with his friends. My question is, how do we get his personal hygiene on an acceptable level?

I’m basically a single mom to two boys. A 13m and a 4m. But this mainly has to do with oldest. He lurks around when I’m on the phone and if there is ANY mention to money, he is wanting to know what it is about, how much, when I’m going to buy such thing even if I’m just talking and have no intentions of buying anything. Granted we struggle. I mean who is not nowadays. But he is always telling me when I get some money I should upgrade this I should do this, why ain’t I doing this. How do I get this kid out my wallet?

I have a 14-year old daughter. She has absolutely zero interest in doing anything. If I let her, she would sit and watch tv for 18 hours straight. Today I had a long day at work and she sat in front of the tv from 8 in the morning until almost midnight. I’ve tried to encourage her to take walks with me, garden with me, draw or read outside, and she complains the entire time and just HATES it. Do I keep trying or let her be?

I had sex for the first time last night and it felt like I was getting raped. It was 100% consensual and I was in control most of the time. But I still felt sad after and it felt wrong. I don't even feel very attracted or connected to the person right now. I almost don't feel like I'm living real life. Is this normal for first time? Should I stay positive and try again?

This is really silly, but I’m too embarrassed to ask any of my friends. Why does my boyfriend keep asking me for nude pictures? i thought we had a great sex life.


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